Mild Autism with Executive Deficits

Dear Tom, 

I adopted an older teen diagnosed with mild autism, which, even mild, is devastating, plus executive deficits coming from neurological problems in his brain. These are not behaviors; he was born with this. He was never told he had these issues after being diagnosed, as we felt it would damage his badly needed and fragile self-esteem. He blames his deprived background for his struggles.

He is knowledgeable, inventive, artistic, ambidextrous, and a talented, self-taught musician who creates beautiful, original music on several instruments. His challenges include being easily distracted, inability to follow routines, short-term memory loss right amid conversation, losing things, absent-mindedness, general chaos in his environment, and extreme immaturity.

I had to learn to talk with him in a one-sided conversation because he cannot keep the pace of everyday conversation. If I speak, he forgets his thought and becomes angry for being interrupted. I am very patient and understanding with him I know he cannot help it, and I despaired his future. 

Physical symptoms include:

• Frequent headaches.
• Anxiety attacks in the night.
• Visual distortions from looking at a computer screen.

The most difficult moments are when he gets triggered periodically into meltdowns that seem almost like seizures. He has spectacular meltdowns, raging and kicking things. After the physical acting out stops, he retreats into angry, silent withdrawal for days, leaving him drained and sleeping for days to recover. He would get angry and confused about things easy for others to understand; just everyday interchanges, and he would suddenly trigger, and when he is started, its impossible to communicate.

He suffers extreme impatience. He does have good friendships with people younger than him, but they are a bit lost and more matched to his maturity level. He is now in his 20s and has not been able to find or keep a job, nor could he complete high school, despite his very high IQ. When he is not triggered, he is very gentle, funny, clever, and loving. 

He has been receiving scalar sessions for about seven months, and I didnt see any change until about three months ago when he decided he wanted to take some classes in chef cookery. He did miss many courses due to not being able to get ready on time or forgetting. Though with difficulty, he did finish the course in late November, a first for him.

He received a 95% rating. This result was an enormous breakthrough, showing that there has been an accelerated improvement in the last six weeks. He is communicating with me about real issues, is maturing rapidly, and is managing his emotions 90% better. He is starting to adopt a better schedule and is beginning to behave more maturely and responsibly. 

He has not had a severe meltdown for several months. I have been working with him for over six years, without much hope. There is too much correlation between the start of his scalar sessions and his marked improvement and maturation not to give the scalar wave program credit. It is the only thing he has experienced that is different.

I now see improvement by the week, and he is maturing rapidly, seems to be catching up. He still has many entrenched bad habits and thought patterns to heal, still gets confused and angry, but he is talking about it and voluntarily coming up with plans for a future. He is happier than I have ever seen him, and I am experiencing an emotional connection from him he has not been able to manifest before. His scalar sessions will continue. 

We are so grateful for the work you offer to us¦.without scalar, how could the above story ever be told? Many thanks, many blessings.